Have you ever, just like me just now, thought to yourself "Wow, already 2 years!". No need to answer...
2 years since my last post! Yes! Don't bother checking the dates and trust me on that one. 2 years shy of a few days.
Bad bad bad..!!. or not...:-)?
Instead of beating myself down, or turning my back to it, I am quickly processing this reality and looking for a meaningful story to tell myself about this situation. Some call it an "excuse", I prefer to see it as a simple explanation of something that was not serving me well any longer. Because that is what it is.
As I tell my clients, there are always good reasons to drop a new habit, as well as bad ones...! Together we explore and determine in which group your habit fits and we go from there.
- Good reason? Then, what was the goal of that habit and what other, more attractive and realistic habit would you like to start instead? Maybe you already have something else going on covering that goal?
- Bad reason? Then, are you interested in starting that habit again? Maybe your life has changed and now is a better time? What is stopping you from maintaining it? What other thing do you need to change before you can make this a successful habit? Any little thing you could tweak?
So in my case, I believe that blogs are not the best and easiest way to communicate with you anymore. It feels like I am communicating from the bottom of a long tunnel and hearing nothing in return. Not too exciting.
In a way, I can say that I have actually expanded my "communication strategy" by doing 2 things:
- Migrating to facebook for quick and inspiring messages.
- Publishing a few books for deeper messages I have in me to share with you.
Now, don't be surprised if for a while at least I start posting articles in here again... just because! You know how that human brain of ours works...
But still, don't hold your breath and in case I don't, join me on facebook either way. See you there!
2 years since my last post! Yes! Don't bother checking the dates and trust me on that one. 2 years shy of a few days.
Bad bad bad..!!. or not...:-)?
Instead of beating myself down, or turning my back to it, I am quickly processing this reality and looking for a meaningful story to tell myself about this situation. Some call it an "excuse", I prefer to see it as a simple explanation of something that was not serving me well any longer. Because that is what it is.
As I tell my clients, there are always good reasons to drop a new habit, as well as bad ones...! Together we explore and determine in which group your habit fits and we go from there.
- Good reason? Then, what was the goal of that habit and what other, more attractive and realistic habit would you like to start instead? Maybe you already have something else going on covering that goal?
- Bad reason? Then, are you interested in starting that habit again? Maybe your life has changed and now is a better time? What is stopping you from maintaining it? What other thing do you need to change before you can make this a successful habit? Any little thing you could tweak?
So in my case, I believe that blogs are not the best and easiest way to communicate with you anymore. It feels like I am communicating from the bottom of a long tunnel and hearing nothing in return. Not too exciting.
In a way, I can say that I have actually expanded my "communication strategy" by doing 2 things:
- Migrating to facebook for quick and inspiring messages.
- Publishing a few books for deeper messages I have in me to share with you.
Now, don't be surprised if for a while at least I start posting articles in here again... just because! You know how that human brain of ours works...
But still, don't hold your breath and in case I don't, join me on facebook either way. See you there!